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Getting Our Girl Up from Her Fave Couch


Talking about our girlfriends, many things come to our minds. We just love them and accept them for who they are but we sometimes we wonder if we can have a positive effect on them. It is good if we have a home buddy for a girlfriend but sometimes, we just wish that she will go out often and enjoy the world rather than her couch.


Of course, we respect her decision but Singapore is a beautiful city meant to be explored. We just want our girlfriend to see the world more but it doesn’t mean that she needs to party all night to enjoy everything. Our girlfriends may be introverted and there is really nothing wrong staying at home but what if it continues for several months or years?

We just want to go out but she isn’t interested. What should we do to entice her to go outside? Well, here are some tips that we can consider:

Take her out but not on a club. It takes relentless effort to convince our girl to dress up and go out. If she finally agreed, we have to be careful not to bring her to clubs or bars. Remember that our girlfriend do not appreciate the crowd. We should take here to partying when she is comfortable outside her zone. Meanwhile, we have to enjoy each other’s company. We can for instance go to movies together or eat out.


Introduce her to new groups. We are concerned because our girlfriends have several people so we decided to invite her to hang out with our different friends. This will work especially if our girlfriend thinks that the people we are with challenge us in a productive way. Our friends should share a lot of things in common with us so it is easy to be with them.

Hold dates outside. Dates doesn’t mean splurging on food or movies. Sometimes, we have to look for things that interest us both. For example, we can consider enrolling in weekend cooking class or perhaps join a trivia night at a nearby pub. In some cases, we can consider going to the gym together and be fit.

At the end of the day, we have to balance the relationship and make it last. The key here is compromise. Hopefully things will work out just fine. We have to remember that a relationship needs a healthy balance of indoor and outdoor activities if we want it to thrive.